Francette Didier
December 18th, 1936 - September 15th, 2025
Callahan Edfast
12/18/1936 - 9/15/2025
Francette "Fran" Didier, beloved wife, mother, sister, teacher, and friend,
passed away peacefully on September 15, 2025, at the age of 88, at Community
Hospital in Grand Junction, Colorado. She awoke that morning beside her devoted
husband, Paul, and after suddenly becoming ill, passed later that day surrounded
by love.
Born Mary Jane Keilocker on December 18, 1936, in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, Fran
was the daughter of Francis Keilocker and Mary Nelis. At 17, she entered the
convent of the Sisters of Charity in Greensburg, Pennsylvania, and chose the
name Francette to honor both her father and St. Francis of Assisi. Her early
life was spent in Swissvale, a Pittsburgh suburb, and her journey took her to
many places over the years, including Greensburg, Gainesville, San Francisco,
Forest Hills, Chatham, Aloha, Walnut Creek, and finally Grand Junction, which
became her beloved home.
Fran's life was one of profound purpose, marked by an unwavering dedication to
education and spiritual growth. She earned a bachelor's degree from Seton Hill
College, a master's degree in education from Duquesne University, and a
Doctorate in Education (Ed.D.) from the University of Florida. Over her
distinguished career, she taught every level of education—from kindergarten to
doctoral programs—and was a faculty member in the groundbreaking Leadership
Program for school principals and superintendents at the University of San
Francisco, a Jesuit institution. Fran also served as a consultant to schools
across the country, including a Hebrew Judaic school led by one of her former
students.
After 24 years as a Sister of Charity, Fran chose to continue her vocation as a
lay educator and consultant. In a testament to her lifelong curiosity and
commitment to her students, she took a sabbatical from academia to work in
business, joining Chase Econometrics, a subsidiary of Chase Manhattan Bank, as a
regional administrator. It was through this work that she met Paul Didier, a
vice president of Chase Manhattan Bank. Their shared love of birding sparked a
lifelong bond, and they were married on April 12, 1982, in the chapel of St.
John's University in New York. Their marriage was officiated by a dear birding
friend of Paul's—an Irish priest and the seventh son of a seventh son, a figure
steeped in Celtic tradition.
Fran embraced Paul's family as her own. Though she had no children of her own,
she was a loving and cherished presence in the lives of Paul's three
children—Mark Didier, the late Lisa Didier Lyne, and Aimée Didier—and his two
granddaughters, Calysta and Cassidy Didier. She was the eldest of four sisters
and is survived by Sally Davies of Florida and Rita (Edward) Osterman of
Michigan.
Fran's life was rich with passion and purpose beyond her professional
achievements. She delighted in birding, square dancing, and playing pinochle,
and she had a deep love for spiritual reading and contemplation. She devoted
much of her volunteer work to exploring the writings of Pierre Teilhard de
Chardin and helping others grow in their spiritual lives. With Paul, she
organized the parish library at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Grand
Junction and volunteered with Grand Valley Peace and Justice. Together, they
also founded a poetry group that met for 17 years.
An avid traveler and lifelong learner, Fran's adventures with Paul took them
across Colorado and beyond, leading birding trips and exploring the wild coasts
of Scotland and the remote Orkney Islands. She touched countless lives through
her kindness, intelligence, generosity, and radiant cheerfulness—qualities that
defined her and endeared her to all who knew her.
Fran is survived by her devoted husband, Paul, their children and grandchildren,
her sisters Sally and Rita, and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in
death by her parents, her sister Helen, and her daughter Lisa.
A memorial Mass will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. on October 24, 2025, at
Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church in Grand Junction. Her ashes will be
inurned in the church's columbarium following the service, with a reception to
follow in the parish hall.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Fran's memory may be made to Catholic Outreach
(P.O. Box 1984, Grand Junction, CO 81502) or Immaculate Heart of Mary Church
(790 26 1/2 Road, Grand Junction, CO 81506).
Fran's life was guided by love and faith, and her legacy continues in the
countless lives she touched. As Scripture reminds us, "The charity of Christ
urges us" (2 Corinthians 5:14)—a truth she lived every day.
Publication date: October 18th, 2025