Margaret E. Palo
June 1st, 1931 - October 7th, 2025
Callahan-Edfast Mortuary
June 1, 1931 - October 7, 2025
Margaret Ellen (Haefner) Palo passed away suddenly and peacefully on October 7,
2025, at age 94 while residing at Larchwood Inns in Grand Junction. Margaret was
born on June 1, 1931, to Earl Wesley Haefner, Sr., and Clara Anna (Brandt)
Haefner in Ida Grove, Iowa, where her father operated a Ford Motor Dealership.
She lived there until the age of five, when her father went to work for the
Chrysler Corporation and the family moved to El Paso, Texas, where they lived
for several months. From 1937 to 1939, they lived in Davenport, Iowa. They then
moved to Dayton, Ohio, where Margaret attended 3rd through 5th grade at Smith
Elementary School in the suburb of Oakwood. From 1942 to 1945, she attended
Junior High School in Postville, Iowa, where she lived with her mother and
brother while her father served in the United States Army at Fort Crook,
Nebraska, during WWII. After the war ended, they moved back to Dayton, Ohio,
where she graduated from Oakwood High School in 1949.Margaret attended DePauw
University in Greencastle, Indiana, for her freshman and sophomore college
years. There she was initiated into Delta Delta Delta Sorority in 1950. In the
fall of 1951, she transferred to the University of Colorado in Boulder, from
which she received a BA in Elementary Education in 1953. During the first
semester of her senior year, she was a Dorm Director in Farrand Hall. On
December 19, 1952, she married Ensign David Bryceon Palo at St. John's Episcopal
Church in Boulder. During the years David served in the US Navy, the couple
lived in Long Beach, CA, Yorktown, VA, Panama City, FL, Alexandria, VA, Tacoma,
WA, and back to Long Beach from October, 1954 until June, 1956, when David
completed his tour of duty. Their first son Bryce was born at Bethesda Naval
Hospital in Maryland in 1954.
From 1956 to 1959 they lived in Boulder, CO while David attended Law School at
the University of Colorado. Their children, James Wesley and Mary Elizabeth,
were born during that time. In July, 1959, the family moved to Grand Junction
after David was offered a position with the law firm of Adams, Heckman, Traylor
and Ela.
During her younger years, Margaret taught briefly for Mesa County Valley School
District 51 as a classroom, homebound, and substitute teacher, and she was
active in the League of Women Voters, and the Reviewers Book Group. In 1976,
Margaret enrolled at Mesa College, where she eventually earned a BS in Career
Counseling. At the end of 1983, her husband and son opened a family law
practice, and she spent the next nine years working there as a legal secretary.
She was a member of St. Matthew's Episcopal Church, Chapter CY of the P.E.O.
Sisterhood, The Compassionate Friends, and HEARTBEAT/Survivors After Suicide
support groups. She played an instrumental role in the founding of both support
groups. In earlier years she enjoyed sewing, knitting, needlecraft, and bridge.
She was an avid skier and reader and enjoyed traveling and playing tennis.
She was preceded in death by her son James Wesley (Jim) Palo in 1978, her
parents, her brother, Earl Wesley Haefner, Jr., and her husband David, who died
in 1999. She is survived by her son, Bryce Palo (Laura Carlson), daughter, Mary
Beth Palo, granddaughter Heather (Kent) Knavel, great granddaughters, Solara and
Aetheria Knavel, step-grandsons Nevin and Anders Carlson, nieces Karen Haefner
and Melanie Glen of Dundee, Scotland, and grandnephews, Logan, Bryce and Elliot
Glen of Dundee, Scotland. Margaret touched and enriched countless lives during
her 94 years and she will be greatly missed by her loving family and many, many
friends.
A memorial service will be held at St. Matthew's Episcopal Church, 3888 27-1/2
Road, Grand Junction, CO 81506, on Saturday December 20, 2025, at 11 a.m. In
lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Matthew's Episcopal
Church, The Compassionate Friends, P. O. Box 4314, Grand Junction, CO 81502,
HEARTBEAT/Grand Junction, 2551 Mayfair Drive, Grand Junction, CO 81501, or
HopeWest, 3090 N. 12th Street, Grand Junction, CO 81506.
Publication date: December 13th, 2025